Grinding Flavour from Stone: Cooking Mole Negro in the Heart of Oaxaca
Where every ingredient grows within sight, and recipes carry centuries of memory
There's something about returning to a place that has already carved itself into your soul. Oaxaca called us back, not with the seductive pull of its bustling food markets or the sophisticated charm of its acclaimed restaurants, but with the quiet insistence of something deeper. Something that whispered of ancient hands grinding chiles on stone, of smoke swirling from wood fires, of stories passed down through generations like precious heirlooms.
Our first encounter with this extraordinary city (read it here) had already left us spellbound by its culinary duality: ancient and modern, sacred and irreverent. I had written then of the city’s seamless thread from indigenous cornfields to tasting menus, from abuelas grinding mole by hand to young chefs bending tradition. That was exactly the side of Oaxaca I had hungered to experience then. But this time, we were venturing beyond the city's embrace, into the mountainous heart where those traditions were born.
And so, one crisp morning, I found myself boarding a rickety bus at dawn, trading the colourful chaos of the city for the winding roads of the Sierra Norte. The city faded into the rearview, replaced by a landscape that felt untouched by time: rugged hills dotted with agave, the air thickening with the perfume of pine and woodsmoke with every turn.
After an hour, we arrived at a village so small it barely seemed real. A scattering of maybe twenty homes, built the way they must have been for generations. The houses were simple, made from adobe and wood, their tiled roofs sloping gently under the weight of years. Thick walls that breathe with the earth, courtyards that open to the sky, and behind each dwelling, sprawling gardens that blur the line between cultivation and wilderness. Each backyard seemed to stretch endlessly, framed by low stone walls and bursting with fruit trees, herbs, and the occasional wandering chicken or goat. At the edge of these yards stood open barns stacked high with firewood, the logs ready for the fires that fuel both warmth and flavour here.
We had come in search of a woman whose name is spoken with a kind of reverence among those who know. Chef Mimi López. But to call her just a chef would be a disservice. She is a guardian of tradition, a storyteller of masa and the comal, and above all, a woman who cooks as if feeding you is the greatest act of love.

She appeared in her doorway like the embodiment of Oaxacan hospitality itself, her smile wide, her eyes warm, her hands already dusted with masa as if she had been waiting for us. Her embrace felt like coming home to a place I'd never been but somehow always known. Within moments, she was treating us not as curious travellers but as long-lost family members who had finally found their way back to her table.
The Chilmole: Smoke, Stone, and Salsa
"We will start with the chilmole," she announced, as if this were the only sensible way to greet the day. Her hands already reaching for the chilmolera, that sacred grinding stone that's been the heart of Oaxacan kitchens for millennia. The chilmolera is no ordinary mortar and pestle. Its deep basin and rough surface are designed to break down chillies, garlic, and tomatoes in a way that releases their essential oils and coaxes out their deepest flavours.
There was no preamble. No formality. We rolled up our sleeves and began. The salsa that emerged from that chilmolera was unlike anything I'd ever tasted, let alone made. Each ingredient sang with the clarity of morning harvest, the tomatoes still warm from the sun, the chiles carrying the very essence of the soil that birthed them. But it wasn't just the ingredients, though they were perfection. It was the air itself, the crystalline water, the indefinable alchemy that happens when food is made with love in a place where love has seasoned every meal for generations.
Mimi's hands moved with the choreography of someone who'd been dancing this dance since childhood. Our hands followed her rhythm. She spoke of ancient methods with the passion of a scholar and the tenderness of a mother, caressing each ingredient as if it were precious beyond measure. Her stories wove through the preparation like smoke through the kitchen, tales of growing up in these mountains, of learning at her grandmother's side, of the deep, abiding love that still fills her every time she steps into this space.
Tamales Wrapped in Ritual
The tamales we crafted next were flavour-packed marvels wrapped in corn husks. Coarse-ground masa mixed with generous amounts of pork lard (Mimi's hands never hesitating as she added what seemed like impossible quantities), fresh parsley, and the herbs that make Oaxacan cuisine sing. Epazote, the pungent, gasoline-scented leaf that transforms everything it touches, adding an earthiness that's both ancient and alive. Hoja santa, the massive heart-shaped leaves that taste like anise and pepper had a beautiful, aromatic child.
We blended these herbs with jalapeños and chile serrano, creating a verdant paste that we strained again and again until it reached a silk-like perfection. The mixture was spread across corn husks - a choice more typical of central Mexico, but that day, it was what our hands worked with, what Mimi had at hand. The masa cradled the pulled pork like a gift, each tamal wrapped tightly, ready for the steam to work its magic. Though Oaxacan tamales are so often cloaked in banana leaves, their grassy aroma sealing in moisture and lending a subtle grassy sweetness, ours carried the imprint of the husk - a different kind of earthiness, but no less bound to the land. And as always, they were about the mole. Black mole, yellow mole, red mole - complex, layered sauces that are less condiment, more centrepiece.
We gathered around the steaming pot, each of us cradling a carefully wrapped parcel of masa, pork, and herbs. The tamales, glossy and fragrant, were tied into neat little bundles, their folds holding the promise of something sacred. There’s a tradition here - una bendición sencilla - a quiet blessing whispered over each tamal as it’s placed gently into the steamer. A few murmured words, a touch of the hand, a hope that it cooks evenly, tenderly, perfectly. It felt ceremonial, this act of stacking them inside the pot, the steam rising like prayers as we bid them goodbye. The pot lid was placed on with care, sealing in both heat and intention.
Mole Negro: A Sauce, A Story
This brings me to the mole negro - the true test of our devotion.
Mole negro is so much more than a sauce. It is history rendered edible, ritual disguised as food, a dish that holds within it the weight of centuries. No other dish in the world demands so many ingredients, nor weaves them together with such patience and reverence. The list is a poem of the land’s abundance: rare chiles, seeds, nuts, fruits, spices, bread, chocolate - each element charred, toasted, ground, folded in, like a litany, like prayer. Mole is not made in haste; it is coaxed into being through time and toil, every stroke of the grinding stone an offering. Born from indigenous traditions and refined over centuries, mole negro is both history lesson and love letter, a sauce so complex it defies description. It is a story - of land and loss, resilience and reverence, love and labour - carried forward one simmering pot at a time. And if there's a dish that embodies the soul of Oaxaca, it's this obsidian masterpiece.
Mimi rattled off the ingredients and I gave up trying to keep track. There were too many. Chilhuacle negro chillies (rare, smoky, precious), plantains, raisins, almonds, pumpkin seeds, sesame, cloves, cinnamon, cumin, garlic, onions, bread, tortillas, lard, chocolate - the list went on. Most of these ingredients we charred on the comal until they were nearly burnt, their bitterness essential to the final depth of flavour.
We then ground everything by hand in the metate (a flat volcanic stone), our sweat literally seasoning the mixture as we worked. The labour was meditative, each stroke of the stone releasing fragrances that filled the kitchen with promises of what was to come. Hours passed in this rhythm, the mole slowly transforming from collection of ingredients into something that felt almost alive.
As the mole simmered low and slow, we turned our attention to rice, but not as I'd ever experienced it. Mimi instructed me to fry mountains of onions and garlic until they were golden and fragrant, then remove them, leaving behind oil that had captured their essence. Into this perfumed oil went the rice, each grain toasted until it was gently brown, before broth and herbs were added and the whole thing left to simmer into aromatic perfection.
Learning to make tortillas under Mimi's watchful eye was like receiving a masterclass in intuition. The masa had to feel just right, soft but not sticky, pliable but not weak. Her hands guided mine as we formed perfect circles, teaching me to feel for the moment when the dough was ready, how to press the dough using a tortilladora, and then finally placing it gently on the comal to see them puffing into magical balloons that signal tortilla perfection.
A Feast of Memory and Meaning
At last, it was time to sit down and savour what we had created. Lunch unfolded in courses. First, we scooped our chilmole salsa onto memelas, thick corn cakes hot off the comal, their edges crisp, their centres tender. Slathered with black beans, crowned with crumbly cotija, they were the perfect canvas for that smoky, fiery salsa.
When the tamales were ready, the husks had darkened, their aroma deepened. We unwrapped them at the table, the steam escaping in a fragrant rush - earthy, herbal, faintly sweet from the hoja santa and epazote, with a gentle hit of smoke from the husk itself. The masa was tender, coarse enough to feel rustic on the tongue, but soft and yielding. The pork filling was rich and juicy, tinged with the chiles in the masa. Every bite felt like it carried the land with it: the brightness of the herbs, the warmth of the lard, the faint, grassy bitterness from the husk.
The mole negro arrived at the table in all its dark, glistening splendour, ladled generously over tender pieces of chicken that had been cooked just long enough to fall apart at the lightest touch. Alongside it sat the fragrant rice, each grain infused with the warmth of garlic and onion, ready to soak up every drop of that complex, velvety sauce.
Unsurprisingly the mole negro was the crescendo, the moment when everything we had worked for came together in a single, transcendent bowl. The depth of flavour was staggering, layer upon layer of complexity that revealed new ingredients with each taste: the initial smokiness, then the warmth of cinnamon, the slow build of heat from the chillies, the faintest sweetness from the dried fruit. The chocolate Mimi had made herself provided a base note that grounded the entire symphony, while dozens of other ingredients contributed their own melodies to this edible orchestra.
Rooted in Reverence
Cooking and eating in that courtyard, surrounded by ingredients that had grown in the very soil beneath our feet, tasting flavours that had been perfected over generations, I understood something profound about the relationship between place and palate. It felt like intimacy. With the land, with tradition, with the countless hands that had shaped these techniques over centuries.
The harmony wasn't just in our tastebuds, though they were certainly singing. It was in the understanding that we had been invited into something intimate - a way of cooking, of living, where every ingredient, every technique, every tool carries meaning. In Mimi’s kitchen, beneath the watchful mountains of Oaxaca, we had certainly eaten well. But we had also touched, however briefly, the roots of a place and the people who keep its stories alive through what they feed you.
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Not all those who wander are lost - some of us are just looking for the perfect mole negro.
Ankita
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What a epic delicious experience! Thank you for sharing this transcending experience!!